{"id":3698,"date":"1951-12-01T01:00:00","date_gmt":"1951-12-01T01:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.rbc.com\/en\/about-us\/history\/letter\/december-1951-vol-32-no-12-lets-preserve-family-life\/"},"modified":"2022-11-28T13:49:39","modified_gmt":"2022-11-28T13:49:39","slug":"december-1951-vol-32-no-12-lets-preserve-family-life","status":"publish","type":"rbc_letter","link":"https:\/\/www.rbc.com\/en\/about-us\/history\/letter\/december-1951-vol-32-no-12-lets-preserve-family-life\/","title":{"rendered":"December 1951 &#8211; Vol. 32, No. 12 &#8211; Let&#8217;s Preserve Family Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"layout-column-main\">\n<p class=\"boldtext\">Among the many problems pressing                     upon us in these days is one that is above all others important:                     preservation of our family way of life.<\/p>\n<p> Here is our top-rank social institution, and it is                     at the same time the nearest many of us come to that &#8220;heaven                     upon earth&#8221; that the philosophers talk about. It is, of all                     our social necessities, the most necessary.<\/p>\n<p>Husband, wife and children &#8211; that is the most natural grouping                     for welfare, comfort and stability. But people see in our                     present state of society a weakening of the ties that bind                     families together, and they fear that this constitutes a menace                     to the values in life which we hold dear.<\/p>\n<p>There are causes which we cannot blame, and, indeed, causes                     which we would not wish to eliminate. All we can do is adapt                     ourselves to them. For example, we have attained political                     democracy, which is a good thing, but it has stressed equality                     and the individual, whereas the traditional family idea was                     of a director and co-operation. We now have people living                     in closely-packed cities, subject to all the distractions                     of urban life, instead of the calm, let&#8217;s-stick-together                     groups of rural life. We have the changed status of women,                     due to their new-found economic independence, and there                     is the opportunity offered to all members of the family to                     go to work. In older days, the bread-winner was the guide,                     counsellor, support and law-giver of the household: today,                     everyone has an equal &#8211; or equally loud &#8211; voice in family                     affairs.<\/p>\n<p>Look at the complications to which this state of things                     gives rise. How far should a husband and wife sacrifice themselves                     or their comfort for the sake of their children? Or for the                     sake of each other? These are questions which plague every                     one of us.<\/p>\n<p>If only, say some, we could get back to primitive impulses,                     all would be well. Alas! it is not possible to do so. Conditions                     change from generation to generation, and while it would be                     utterly foolish to disregard the principles of the past, we                     must so adapt them to the environment of today as to retain                     all their values without giving in to their assumptions of                     being eternal laws. We must, at the same time, make sure that                     we have something better in hand before destroying the old                     ideas.<\/p>\n<h3>What is the Foundation?<\/h3>\n<p>The family is built upon love. All literature records the                     yearning of human beings for love. The greatest poems revolve                     around it. Our noblest writers have, at their highest moments,                     described the joys of fulfilled love, and have pictured for                     us the wretched suffering visited upon those who throw it                     away or lose it.<\/p>\n<p>How does love show itself in the family? Not principally                     in actions, or in bubbling-over enthusiasms, but in the                     calm feeling that here is a group of people, intimate from                     the child&#8217;s babyhood, who would feel pride in his success,                     sorrow at his failure, and shame at his disgrace.<\/p>\n<h3>What is Stability?<\/h3>\n<p>The family holds its pre-eminent place in our way of                     life because it is the only possible base upon which a society                     of responsible human beings has ever found it practicable                     to build for the future and maintain the values they cherish                     in the present.<\/p>\n<p>It seems necessary for the peace of mind of readers who                     fear the worst, to stress the fact that in a world of change                     the family also changes. But the influence of social heritage                     has in the long run outweighed social innovation. Even if,                     for a time, society departs from past standards, the structure                     seems to right itself on a level which fits the new environment.                     That is the character of civilization, to set aside the easy-to-follow                     traditional pattern while developing into something better.                     The vital thing is to preserve those elements of civilization,                     culture, ideals, standards and customs which the past has                     found good, and merge them with the new or changed factors                     which the present day believes valid.<\/p>\n<h3>Personal and Social<\/h3>\n<p>If the family were to be swept away, the world would become                     a place of regimentation, chaos and desolation. Why? Because                     the family fulfils at least three vital functions: it provides                     sustenance and trains its members in the art of surviving;                     it provides the earliest group association, teaching the art                     of social living; and it is the primary place where the values                     and knowledge of culture are passed from generation to generation.<\/p>\n<p>That is only a small part of the service given by the family                     to individual members of it. There are other functions. The                     family is closely related to social change. Ideas must develop                     there before the community adopts them.<\/p>\n<p>From birth to death, there is scarcely an action that can                     be performed by a person that is not guided and coloured by                     what is learned in the family. Bitterness within the family                     works its way out into society. The person who is frustrated                     in family life is likely to become the cynic of world life.<\/p>\n<p>But wholesome and constructive thinking in the family will                     penetrate all society. The man who learns within the family                     to accommodate himself to others, to subordinate, when necessary,                     his personal interest to the interest of the group, and to                     tolerate in others fads and habits he would condemn in himself:                     that man has learned many of the lessons necessary to his                     becoming a good workman, a good executive and a good citizen.<\/p>\n<h3>Effect of Classes<\/h3>\n<p>We must pass by, in this Letter, the disruption brought                     about by the cityward trend and by inventions. These, which                     are of undoubted significance, were discussed in previous                     articles. Instead, something will be said about the effect                     of social classes on family stability, a phenomenon with rapidly                     changing and dynamic qualities.<\/p>\n<p>If we divide the classes arbitrarily, we have three: the                     upper class, comprising the old and the new; the middle class,                     divided into upper and lower; and the working class. These                     distinctions are important, because no matter what we say                     about democracy and equality, they are there.<\/p>\n<p>In the old upper class the principal features are: who were                     one&#8217;s ancestors and who are one&#8217;s relatives? Background is                     the testing point. One of the constant worries of this group                     is to keep its young people from marrying indiscreetly someone                     outside the group.<\/p>\n<p>Among the new upper-class families one finds, usually,                     exceptional economic success, symbolized by home ownership,                     fine furniture, shining automobiles and stylish clothes. Alas                     for their hopes, the new upper-class family can meet                     the means test, but not the lineage test, and so it is likely                     to feel frustrated and cheated. Men don&#8217;t suffer so greatly                     in this disappointment as do women, because men are more likely                     to be satisfied with the actualities, as they see them, and                     to pay less attention to the symbols.<\/p>\n<p>When the philosophers of the nineteenth century came to                     discuss classes they pinned their faith on the middle class.                     It is certain that this is the moving class. A vast area of                     opportunity has been opened by scientific and commercial advancement:                     boys and girls of today may aspire to professional, scientific                     and administrative positions far beyond the reach of those                     in similar class categories a century ago. We have expanded                     our educational institutions to meet the needs of our age.                     Our middle-class happiness goals are success in business                     or a profession, a university education for children, and                     economic security for parents.<\/p>\n<p>One of the disruptive facts in family life is that so many                     families with an urge to climb socially have to break with                     their group as part of the price they pay. It is often a stiff                     price to pay, and inevitably it means a rupture in the family                     pattern. It is a cost to be reckoned by any family with climbing                     aspirations.<\/p>\n<h3>Individuality and the Group<\/h3>\n<p>Another factor to count in the changing family picture is                     the shift to the democratic companionship type of family from                     the once common &#8220;old man of the tribe&#8221; kind of family. There                     are different ideas today about the role of husbands and wives                     and of children and parents. If the husband expects that his                     wife will be the devoted family slave his grandmother was,                     or if the wife tries to impose upon children the old-world,                     old-time, standards of behaviour, a blow-up may                     he expected.<\/p>\n<p>Here is a basic clash: between personal and group organization.                     In olden times the group was necessary to survival; today,                     the individual is a person, possessed of a soul and entitled                     to personal self-expression. How far this can go without                     endangering the family is the most important social question                     of the age.<\/p>\n<p>Egotism, or self-centredness, is one of the great wreckers                     of family life. And yet, personal interest is one of the most                     desired attributes of living in a family.<\/p>\n<p>The principal thing every normal person desires in marriage                     is a lively, personal interest of the other person in himself                     or herself. It must be lively. People will tolerate affronts                     and injuries, particularly from one well-beloved, to                     a far greater extent than they will accept indifference. Perhaps                     we might say that indifference sends more marriages on the                     rocks than does any other cause.<\/p>\n<h3>Economic Worries<\/h3>\n<p>Some persons will say that most family disruption stems                     from financial and economic causes, but we need to proceed                     with care in making any such judgment. Nowhere is it more                     true than in personal relations that things are not always                     what they seem. The &#8220;financial tension&#8221; that is so greatly                     deplored may be merely the overt expression of other worries                     and disappointments and troubles.<\/p>\n<p>Families are, of course, particularly vulnerable economically.                     They are economic partnerships. They spend a lot of money.                     The collective family budget dwarfs even municipal, provincial                     and federal finance. There are some who believe that all applicants                     for marriage licenses should be required to present certificates                     showing that they have completed courses of premarital financial                     training.<\/p>\n<p>But there is a wealth of information and help available:                     more, probably than on many other aspects of married life.                     In the past four years this bank has distributed nearly a                     quarter million copies of its Monthly Letter on family budgets,                     and more than 200,000 copies of its family budget book.<\/p>\n<p>These helps are designed for persons who are trying to make                     a go of family life: not for those who are striving to keep                     up with the Joneses on the next street. In one case we have                     heard of, a couple who had lived a reasonably happy life for                     five years on a modest budget broke up six months after a                     couple with a larger income moved in next door.<\/p>\n<p>Economic matters are important in family life, but they                     do not rate top billing. Persons with unstable personalities                     can quarrel as readily over money matters as about anything                     else. Those who make sure to keep equable temperaments can                     adjust themselves to really trying economic problems. Let&#8217;s                     not take the easy way out by using budget difficulty as a                     peg on which to hang responsibility for a break-up.<\/p>\n<h3>Approaching Marriage<\/h3>\n<p>The approach young people make to marriage is a big feature                     about success in family building. There is a Hollywood jewelry                     store with a sign in the window: &#8220;We Hire Out Wedding Rings.&#8221;                     A casual approach like that will seldom pay off in stability.<\/p>\n<p>Marriage is not something that is covered in a ceremony;                     it is not something in which success is assured if the young                     people have the same background, traditions and economic status.                     It is not guaranteed success by books, movie-made conceptions                     of married life, or anything else of a casual or superficial                     nature.<\/p>\n<p>The only thing that works effectively toward successful                     marriage is kinship of ideas and ideals. No blind faith in                     romantic love will serve, though this is a hard-to-erase                     social fiction.<\/p>\n<p>There are no short cuts toward success in marriage. Preparation                     for marriage involves all that pertains to emotional maturity,                     and it means &#8211; here is the rub &#8211; socialization of personality.                     These two persons have to live together for many years, and                     over the course of time it is basic personalities that count.<\/p>\n<p>If, at the bottom of a person&#8217;s reality, there is a spirit                     of philosophy made up of one part ideals and two parts tolerance                     for another person&#8217;s ideals, then there is much better hope                     for a happy outcome of many years of living together than                     if the proportion is reversed.<\/p>\n<p>If there is a key word in family relationships, we suggest                     it is &#8220;adaptability&#8221;. This is why we like the work that is                     done in youth organizations such as the Y&#8217;s. Young men and                     young women learn, through the give-and-take of                     combined efforts and joint study groups, the basic facts of                     social life. They learn to live together, to share interests                     and enthusiasms, and to cultivate a certain maturity which                     excludes self-seeking, self-pity and self-indulgence.                     It always helps, we think, if there can be, as well, a sense                     of humour.<\/p>\n<p>Not so far distant from this thought is another: it isn&#8217;t                     always the easy marriages that last longest or are the happiest.                     By &#8220;easy&#8221; we mean those where there is no financial concern,                     no &#8220;in-law&#8221; difficulty, and no worry about social status.                     If people are to live richly together they need to have some                     interdependence of mind and spirit. They have to find it necessary,                     on occasion, to look to the other partner for moral or other                     support.<\/p>\n<p>Marriage is a combined operation, and that does away with                     the freedom of isolation. Interdependence doesn&#8217;t mean leaning,                     but being able to reach out and know that the partner is there                     when needed, and planning together to meet a big or a little                     crisis, and walking hand-in-hand along both sunlit                     uplands and dark valleys.<\/p>\n<h3>The Family Council<\/h3>\n<p>To bring together in a harmonious pattern the personal traits                     and desires of its members, and the group needs of the family,                     the &#8220;family council&#8221; has been devised.<\/p>\n<p>The chief function of the family council is to discuss matters                     of common family interest, and to agree upon things to be                     done. It is based upon the thought that here is a group in                     which each member has rights, responsibilities and privileges,                     but which must act, in certain matters, as a body. It gathers                     up all relevant data about a family problem, thus providing                     wider knowledge and more sound judgment than would be possible                     if only one or two in the family made decisions. Its function                     socially is to safeguard the existence of the group and the                     rights of everyone in it; its significance as an aid to better                     living lies in the feeling of security the members of the                     family get from this unity.<\/p>\n<h3>Family Ritual<\/h3>\n<p>Very like the family council in its effect, though not in                     its formality of organization, is ritual. This is a way of                     acting that acquires a certain &#8220;rightness&#8221; in each family.                     It is not merely a code of behaviour, but extends itself to                     include participation in family prayer, in religious observances,                     in hobbies, in observing birthdays and Christmas, and in many                     other ways. It is largely through family ritual that culture                     is developed and passed on through generations.<\/p>\n<p>Mealtime provides a recurring opportunity for ritual. It                     is then that the family is at its greatest ease; the members                     are together in one place for a definite period; and there                     are fewer distractions than at most other times of the day.<\/p>\n<p>What is the significance of all this with regard to family                     stability? Surely it is obvious that the family&#8217; whose members                     express themselves in council or at the table or on some other                     occasion, where they are accepted for themselves and feel                     important as members of the family group; surely it is evident                     that this family has a much greater chance of surviving than                     any other. Such a pattern of living averts crises, and it                     means that there will be little occasion for scenes and strife.<\/p>\n<h3>About Fellowship<\/h3>\n<p>A natural extension of the family council and the ritual                     of family sharing is the help the church gives. It is recognized                     that the church has a responsibility for building the family                     and supporting it as an institution, and at the same time                     the family is the strong support of the church. The virtues                     of religion are the very virtues which are needed by husbands                     and wives in their own relations and in their relations with                     their children.<\/p>\n<p>The thought of fellowship, which is basic in every religion,                     is something that should be emphasized in family life. Certainly,                     fullness of happy living cannot be attained without a feeling                     of relatedness to some treasured person or group.<\/p>\n<p>The source of many anxieties is the sensation of being alone                     and unwanted. It is a supreme duty of the family to weave                     into a stable pattern the relationship of parents and children,                     and then to extend it through church and other social institutions                     into larger groups.<\/p>\n<p>This fellowship has many sides. It includes the giving and                     receiving of encouragement and the easing of wounds received                     in life. But it goes farther. It means a feeling of acceptance                     and approval. It means being needed and approved by people                     who know all about us, and like us in spite of it.<\/p>\n<p>The need for fellowship is as deep as the need for food.                     There is nothing in human experience that can substitute for                     genuine, warm, and simple relatedness. Those who have it not                     are the misfits, the youths and men and women who are trying                     to lose their sense of deprivement in drink or in sensual                     pleasures. They are, as J. L. Liebman says with clear vision                     in his inspiring and comforting book <em>Peace of Mind<\/em>:                     &#8220;lonely children lost and naked in a world that has never                     woven a garment of love for them, and that has relentlessly                     driven them down the empty corridors of the years, desolate                     and alone.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h3>The Art of Sharing<\/h3>\n<p>This brings up the matter of sharing. No one who desires                     the good life can live buttoned-up. Living demands activity                     of the physical, intellectual, domestic and spiritual kind.                     We have an innate urge to give, to add something to life,                     to enrich our families and our friends. The giving need not                     be of material things: merely giving credit or saying a kind                     word is good. If we hug our impulses, denying what we should                     dearly love to give, then we are not only depriving our friends                     of something that would enrich their lives but we are rejecting                     for ourselves the greatest boon &#8211; the feeling of being important                     both now and for future time.<\/p>\n<p>Sharing keeps people young. Our minds and spirits remain                     flexible. We suffer less nervous strain. We get a feeling                     of well-being.<\/p>\n<p>Those who will try sharing, consciously and sincerely, have                     an adventure coming to them just as thrilling as the child&#8217;s                     first toddling steps into strange, romantic and exciting enchanted                     land.<\/p>\n<p>It is important, too, to receive graciously. When someone                     proffers a kindness, or a friendship, enter into the spirit                     of it. Realize how important it is to receive it generously.                     The fun of giving may be killed if the receiver takes for                     granted.<\/p>\n<h3>No Matter how Tough<\/h3>\n<p>No matter how tough life in your family may seem on occasion                     m even if you seem to have enough troubles and crises for                     a radio serial &#8211; there is something constructive that can                     be done about it. Given a thoughtful appraisal of the problems,                     and a sincere desire, you will get good results. One of our                     troubles is that we human beings do not so much adjust ourselves                     to solving problems as we do to having problems. We are inclined                     to acquiesce in them as things that must be taken for granted.<\/p>\n<p>Life, as is said so boldly by S. H. Kraines in <em>Managing                     Your Mind<\/em>, is neither a rose garden nor a garbage dump;                     it&#8217;s neither and it&#8217;s both. There are arid places that can                     be turned into gardens, and dumps that can be removed. We,                     like our environment, are in process of becoming; we are capable                     of modification and change. A good rule is: don&#8217;t accept anything                     you don&#8217;t wish until you have used all your imagination and                     sincerity and graciousness to make it better.<\/p>\n<p>Stable and successful family living must be earned and achieved.                     It will not come upon us by accident or law or custom. Education                     will help, the counsellor will certainly be of assistance,                     an article like this may show some possibilities. But the                     threads must be woven by the individuals who are most concerned.<\/p>\n<p>Anyone more than casually interested in family stability                     will find the subject dealt with in detail in the November,                     1950, issue of the <em>Annals <\/em>of the American Academy                     of Political and Social Science, Washington, D.C., U.S.A.                     It contains 24 chapters, written by scholars and workers of                     experience in various professional fields who are engaged                     actively in dealing with the problems of the family. Some                     of these writers are quoted in this Monthly Letter.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":79,"featured_media":0,"template":"","categories":[1],"rbc_letter_theme":[],"rbc_letter_year":[31],"class_list":["post-3698","rbc_letter","type-rbc_letter","status-publish","hentry","category-uncategorized","rbc_letter_year-31"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v27.4 (Yoast SEO v27.4) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>December 1951 - Vol. 32, No. 12 - Let&#039;s Preserve Family Life - RBC<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.rbc.com\/en\/about-us\/history\/letter\/december-1951-vol-32-no-12-lets-preserve-family-life\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"December 1951 - Vol. 32, No. 12 - Let&#039;s Preserve Family Life - RBC\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Among the many problems pressing upon us in these days is one that is above all others important: preservation of our family way of life. 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